I just finished reading this story of a man who found out long after his divorce and child support payments that his youngest “son” was not his son at all, but was the biological son of the child’s godfather.

The NJ Supreme Court unanimously rejected the divorced non-biological father’s request for a refund of his child support for that child because the child in question was over 23 years old and it was beyond the statute of limitations.

Tuesday a very good friend of mine emailed me and told me her son has found out the baby his girlfriend had and said was his is not his biological child.

He returned mother and baby to the mother’s father, which is where the biological father apparently lived.

He questioned his parentage because they had been separated for several months while she visited her father and it didn’t add up. So now a little girl over a month old who was loved by Jon is without a man who loved her since before she was born. Jon loved that baby, and his mother told me he cried hard the day he told her he had taken them back to the mother’s father.

In the New Jersey incident the mother knew or she wouldn’t have told her ex-husband he wasn’t the biological father. In the other incident the mother knew because she knew she was sleeping around and Jon couldn’t have been the father.

In both cases men have been deeply hurt, thinking these children were their biological children, and in both cases two innocent children have been the center of this smut of their mothers.

I pray for all of them.